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Find out What Your Child Really Needs When Emotions Get Big & How to Help Them.

✔️ Care Tags are special cards you can create with your child to determine what you can do in times when certain "negative" behaviors are showing up.


✔️ The child-brain doesn’t fully mature until age 25+; this means that children will feel challenged in understanding and managing their big emotions and will need adult support, but many times, adults don't know what to do. Care Tags will help.


✔️ Create a deeper understanding of your child and how you can meet their emotional needs.


✔️ Increase emotional intelligence skills in yourself and your children. Care Tags make it easier for both parent and child to manage the big emotions.


✔️ Prevent misunderstandings and increase the connection between parent and child.

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Why Care Tags?

As busy adults who are already feeling spent and sometimes confused on this parenting journey, it can be hard to pinpoint what our child is feeling during challenging times. All we can see is the behavior they exhibit.​ But beneath the behavior are tender needs...

When we misunderstand our child's feelings and needs, it can exacerbate the situation. But preparing ourselves in advance with Care Tags – a fun parent/child activity inspired by Jodi Smith MSW, LCSW, RPT-S, we can instill an important life skill in our kids that many of us did not grow up explicitly learning ourselves.


What's interesting is that you'd be surprised by what many kids actually need when they feel a certain emotion or show a certain behavior.


Inside this free resource, I'll also tell you how to talk to your kids about Care Tags.

Who is Ashley Anjilien Kumar?

She goes by “The Confidence Coach” and resides in Canada with her two amazing kids and husband. For the last 21 years, Ashley has worked with kids and parents.

“As a Wisdom Coach for kids and Parenting Coach, I help families create cohesive, connected and expressive teams where the primary focus is to help kids gain sensational self-confidence and soaringself-esteem, while helping parents overcome hurdles that prevent them from achieving the supportive and peaceful family system they desire. For kids, I use a 6 step system rooted in story-telling and multi-sensory learning to go from disempowered, disengaged and unmotivated to self-empowered, self-connected and self-motivated.

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With parents, I have unique 13 step approach that allows us to unearth subconscious parenting patterns that play a role in the family’s challenges and shift them so that parents can grow into conscious, confident and empowered family leaders with the help of support, tools and strategies.” – Ashley Anjlien Kumar


She is the author of 3 books, an internationally recognized speaker and coach, and workshop facilitator.

She carries several certifications, here are a few: Certified Wisdom™ Coach, Certified Master Parent Coach, Somatic Trauma Therapy Practitioner, SEL Facilitator, Trauma-Informed Educator, RYT200

When she’s not working, she’s spending time with her kids, studying and researching more about human development, or enjoying yoga, dance and cultural experiences.


Parents Recommend

"Thanks Ashley for your explanations and enthusiasm. I have since noticed my daughter applying the concepts and she is now quite interested in journaling and getting her feelings out. The crafts and concepts were made fun and easy to understand.  She uses her 'failure' box and seems to get a sense of reduced stress from it. I am quite happy with the experience overall and I would recommend it to friends and colleagues."


- Apryl Gladue, parent

Ashley is incredibly gifted in her ability to connect with children. She offers advanced personal growth topics to children in a way they can fully understand, integrate and have FUN with! She brings so much passion and enthusiasm to every interaction, and easily inspires kids to both embrace and embody her brilliant teachings.

She holds loving, supportive space for the expansion of the entire family system. I am so grateful for her impact on our world and highly recommend her as a coach, teacher and mentor!"

-Toni Harris, Mother of an 8 year old one-on-one coaching participant.

“I feel confident it was money well spent! I’m loving my new calm home; and even though the sessions were for my daughter, my son is so much happier too - thank you, thank you, thank you!"

-Holly Twerdochlib, mother of 12 year old child (One-on-One Child Coaching and Parent Coaching)

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